What is love

Approach for the search for my soulmate

Continuing from my previous post about soulmates, I believe in soulmates but havent come across mine yet. And I have also realised that I might have met her, but maybe I pretended to be someone else, or not even that, I might not have been me at the moment (people behave differently with differnt people, thats relative behaviour I guess).

Anyways, continuing my search, I feel that I have to improve my comfort level with members of the opposite gender, so that even if I come across my soulmate tommorow, I shouldnt come across as a mumbling bumbling fool. Also as accepted universally, nobody can understand a woman. It just comes with practice I think; manners, etiquettes, chivalry, these things come from within, but also take some time to develop.

After having read Richard Bach's "A Bridge Across Forever", I think the correct approach should be to experiment, get into relationships but never be permanently scarred from one. Every relationship teaches you a lot, be it patience or understanding of a woman. And I am still on the lookout fro my soulmate.

Such experimentation might be called unethical, but its not as I myself am one of the subjects in it. Its not like I am playing around with 2 human beings, I am one of them and as equally involved as the other. If anything backfires, it will affect me also.

Also being in a relationship overrules all the side-effects. Just imagine, I have so much fun and peace being in a relationship with a girl whom I dont even love, then how much better would it be with my soulmate? Of course, not everyone gets to have this much fun, it also includes a lot more. But if a relationship seems like its dragging, its always better to end it then instead of trying to out some life into it. (This is not in the case with my soulmate, I am assuming that with her everything will be just perfect).

So current situation - am carrying on my experiment and will carry on the learning process. If I meet my soulmate during this, well and good, else I might as well change my approach. But right now, I think this is worth a try. What say??

posted by Raoul @ 4:44 AM