Why do we FALL in love
It's unfair to start the discussion that we fall in love just to sleep with someone :) though we may end up concluding with it ;)
Then why do we fall in love? Is this love just manifestation of sexual attraction? Is it really what everybody looking for? Why heart starts beating when you see a person of opposite sex? (we will come back to homosexuality soon. ) Is there anybody who never fall in love?
Remember when you first go to reference library to ghot for your test, you see lots of pretty faces around and how u feel that u badly need a chick. And u go n ask some stupid doubts. ( Some smart(?) guys choose to clear their doubts =)) ) and then exchange of notes and then reserving a seat in PCP's class. ReWri , MT I, MT II groupie, and at end of semester, you will get a kela and and end of your (Love :P) story. But some lucky(?) guys manage not getting kela and lead a happy (?) life till they pass out.
Anyways, before we figure out why we fall in love, its important to define what is love. This is precisely what we will be doing through these blogs and highly difficult to define in a line or two. But let's start with some basic definition. "Love is a state of insanity which can be cured only by falling in Love and suffering it. This mental disorder is prominent only in civilized society. Humans living simpler life consuming pure air, food and water do not get infected by this disease. This sometimes can be fatal if patient fails to infect its conjugate pair"
One more thing I would like to say is, when we say love, it's not the verb we are talking about. It's the noun. It's just the feeling. The only place where love exists is your mind. It's your mind which is constantly nagging you. Is it really real? There is no spoon.
Your mind is very intelligent fellow. First it's make you feel presence of other people around you. Then it makes you feel that you are incomplete without them. And that's all, this is the end of your story. You started feeling 'I want it'. The moment this me, mine and 'I want it' come in the picture, sit back and enjoy.
In short, it's just mind's play. Electric signals interpreted by mind. Play it safe. And always keep in mind no matter what happens, we should not suffer.
posted by kaps @ 11:17 PM
3 Comments:
Let's see the other possibilities... We love so many other people, don't we? IMHO, It's kinda' wierd to be defining love in terms of chicks alone; Don't we love our brethren? Don't we love our friends?
On the other hand, love as is portrayed in movies makes me wonder.. hmm... You see the hero and heroine eloping in da name of love: I'm being very specific about movies like "Jism", "Murder", "Kasoor" ... (coincidence?) and they do all sorts of things to show you they love each other; These things just get branded as love stories coz that's the only way you can make some good money outta' it.
I'm not claiming that some few good movies like "DDLJ", "KKHH" don't talk about love, either; But probably "K3G" gives us a better idea about parental love *erm* .. never mind. So, end of the day, it boils down to saying that we have to be very open to all forms and kinds of "LOVE".
in my own simple way the day you will realise the true colour of love ...you will be IMMORTAL ...man!!!
how about exploring the presence of love in HATRED , JEALOUSY, PITY, SADNESS, ANGER, and FEAR.if you look carefully u will find they are shades of love only ...may be the modes og expression vary.....what say?
dei naaye... how did u manage to put in ur snap da???
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